UK Polyamory Resources

Last updated 8 February 2020 (added footnote)

What is polyamory? According to the definition provided on the website More Than Two✱, polyamory is "the state or practice of maintaining multiple sexual and/or romantic relationships simultaneously, with the full knowledge and consent of all the people involved."

What is this webpage? This is a simple list of resources for people in the UK who want to find out more about polyamory and open relationships, or meet other people interested in alternative relationship styles. If you're interested in books and articles, try companion page Polyamory Reading Guide.

Why does it look so basic? Because simple solutions are often the most effective, but mostly because I'm not a web designer.

Local Meet Ups, online and 'real'


Various regional events can be found in Topbit's Poly Calendar, which is updated regularly.

XS, S, M, L, XL or XXL indicates group size. XS = less than fifty members; S = between fifty and one hundred members; M = between one and five hundred members; L = between five hundred and one thousand members; XL = over one thousand members; XXL = over five thousand members.

North East

North West

Yorkshire and the Humber

East and West Midlands

East of England

South East

South West


Wales, Scotland and Ireland



Annual Events

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